letter to church follow up.
i know that some people missed my heart on my last blog post. they are caught up in the
law part of the Bible and fearful to apply too much grace and love. they aren't seeing this
from a global perspective and are offended by my loose comparisons. they cannot separate
loving someone from loving every single thing they think or do. i wish i could chat
with everyone about that, but i need to focus on something else right now and ask for your
prayer. my prayer in all this was that God would open the eyes and hearts of some
Christians that they might humbly admit that they have been contributing to this divide
and oppression and that they would ask Him what He might have them do about it.
i am getting messages about just that happening. to God by the glory!
one friend has a relative who is a lesbian and although she would never want anyone
to be mean to her, she has always been uncomfortable and humbly confessed to God
that she wanted to see her more the way that the Lord does.
another friend confessed that she definitely has been on the ugly side and even cut off a
relationship of a close relative when she recently made her stand against gay marriage.
she desires now to reach out to them with a humbled, changed heart realizing after many
prayers that her relative's heart would change…she is thankful that her own eyes were
opened and He changed her own heart about how to love bigger.
i spoke with another friend that had no idea that people who are gay are being brutally
murdered and publicly shamed around the world. she couldn't even believe that they
would be treated poorly in the US. she had never heard the statistics of suicide rate for
teens who are gay or know it was illegal in many countries around the world. she
thought i was stretching too far to call them suffering, hurting, oppressed people.
friends, would you join me in prayer for these people that have humbly come to the
realization that maybe they are not loving people well and are contributing to this divide?
please pray for any people that they reach out to reconcile with--that those people
would have open hearts to hear them & work on their relationship. would
you pray that we can not allow fear to rule us and know that when God asks us to
love people, it doesn't mean only the ones that we see perfectly following the law of
scripture in our eyes. would you pray that we can add grace to our law and law to our
grace in a way that honors the Lord? would you pray that more and more desire to build
a bridge of love, grace and compassion between the Christian and the LGBT community?
finally, thank you for the outpouring of love through your words to me and your
sharing with your community. i realize that this is a controversial topic, but
i believe we have to start this conversation. the world desperately needs to
know of our God who is loving, gracious and faithful.
thank you for being courageous and standing for love.

Love you heart. Love your choice to bravely speak up! Arm in arm with you, friend!
ReplyDeleteYou are (sadly) before your time - I can't help but think in 50 years everyone will look back & our children will be horrified to learn the LGBT community were treated so badly. Well done, it is easy for me to have a pro stance on gay marriage and equality, I do not consider myself Christian - I salute you and other Christians for standing up for good rather than listening to the hype of the ignorant - much love xox
ReplyDeleteThank you for starting this vital conversation.
ReplyDeleteI think your heart is beautiful. <3 No one should be made to feel alienated from their faith or from God.
ReplyDeleteYou're awesome. and thank you for posting on this. You give me HOPE.
ReplyDeleteI was going to comment on the previous one, but was a little nervous to given the strange roundabout way I came to follow your blog. I've admired the way you are raising your family, but was very aware of your beliefs that do not currently match my own. As a gay woman who has both been seriously hurt and wronged by the church, and who has also spent a significant amount of time in Uganda and come to love the people and the culture, it brought me such relief to see your previous post. It always strikes a deep chord when I see Christians who really get what it means to love ALL people, in a way that is not just superficial but truly embraces each person's life and life journey. I think it's so important to say what you feel is right because it heals the scars just a little bit for those of us who have been burned by Christians and the church to see people understanding REAL compassion.
ReplyDeleteAMEN!! Lovelyn, AMEN.
ReplyDeleteAmen!!!!! Thank you for saying what I so firmly believe. Compassion is a beautiful thing and I hope and pray that your posts will change the hearts of those without any. God Bless Love!!!!
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